When you married your husband, it was one of the happiest moments of your life.
But lately? You’ve found yourself wondering, “What was I thinking when I married this man?”
Does this sound familiar?
You have the same arguments over and over again.
Simple discussions turn into misunderstandings, the silent treatment, and more distance.
And let’s be honest, you’re resentful he has it a lot easier than you do.
Your relationship is bringing you to tears too often these days, but sometimes, your only escape is to cry somewhere your kids won’t see you. You never imagined you could be together with someone and yet end up feeling so alone.
This is not the marriage you dreamed of. You want a marriage that was filled with connection and laughter and serving Allah.
A marriage that has romance and fun, with dates like you used to have.
A marriage where you can discuss important topics & hear each other out.
You want deep love, support, and to communicate so that you both feel heard and respected.
Even if you’re beginning to wonder if divorce is best because it just seems like too much work to get your marriage to where you want it to be, here’s what I know.
Sister, you’re not alone - and it doesn’t have to continue like this.
You can have the relationship you want - and it may be closer than you realize. If you’re ready to make a change, you’re ready for Muslimah in Love.
Muslimah in Love is an 8-week group coaching program designed for women just like you seeking a confidential, safe space to work on their marriages and themselves.
This program is everything I wish I’d known when my marriage was on the brink of divorce - and it’s helped countless clients save their marriages (or choose divorce with clarity and confidence).
In a nutshell, you’ll learn how to have an amazing marriage and communicate better, or get clarity on whether divorce is the right choice for you.
This program is divided up into 4 sections:
The Foundations, Honor Yourself, Honor Your Husband, Honor the Relationship
Here’s what you’ll learn:
Section 1: FOUNDATIONS:
What you need to know to fix your relationship - and build it to last.
Discover the hidden roles at play in your relationship sabotaging the attempts you make at positive communication (and what to do instead).
Identify the baggage you’re both bringing to the relationship and how/why that is pushing you away from each other instead of bringing you together.
The simple strategies you can put in place right now to put a bandage over your biggest challenges, while you work on healing the deeper layers of your relationship.
How to take the charge out of your conversations so you stop reacting from a place of judgement and instead come from a place of love and understanding.
Section 2: HONOR YOURSELF:
How to get back in touch with what really lights you up so you can stop people pleasing and instead start showing up as the powerful amazing woman who’s been hiding inside you all these years.
How to set firm and loving boundaries so that you can stand up for yourself and what you want, without causing a huge argument.
Get clear on the legacy you want to leave for your family and the world and how you need to be showing up in the world TODAY in order to make that happen.
How to learn to tune into your own intuition and listen to what your gut is telling you so that you can feel confident that you’re making the right decisions for yourself and your family.
How to step into the full version of yourself as a woman in a way that excites and intrigues your husband without overwhelming or intimidating him.
Section 3: HONOR YOUR HUSBAND:
Recognize what’s possibly happening beneath the surface & the root causes of his behavior and where he’s coming from so that you can be more understanding and accepting of what’s causing the cycle of how he responds to the discussions and arguments that you both have.
How to invite him to step up into the man you always believed him to be, without undermining him, or making him feel like he’s failing or that you’re disrespecting him.
Being able to respect his decisions and desires without sacrificing your own.
What he wants more than anything and no it’s not what we’ve been taught. This one will surprise you. It’s two things.
Section 4: HONOR THE RELATIONSHIP:
How to communicate in a way where you actually feel heard and have him excited to change, not just listen without any change happening.
Communication strategies to help you communicate with him and anyone else on something that’s important to you.
Communication mistakes that you could be doing without realizing that create more of the distance you’re trying to stop.
How to get on the same page about the day to day stuff - agreeing on parenting styles, housework etc.
How to have fun and playfulness again in your relationship. Tools to stop taking life too seriously.
How to approach sex & flirting - how to bring back the spice and sexiness in your relationship.
This program is from February 29, 2020- April 18, 2020.
Included:
10 (ten) x Value Packed Training Modules
8 (eight) LIVE Q + A Calls to answer any questions about the modules or your relationships
Lifetime Access To Course Material
BONUS: Powerful Listening Skills + Barriers Ebook
BONUS: The Power of Choice Ebook
BONUS: List of Fatima’s Recommended Books
BONUS: What to do if divorce is the best way to go and how to use the lessons in this program to support you in your hope to a smoother divorce process.
BONUS: 2 private one on one sessions with Fatima (for pay in full option)
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The Logistics:
The program starts February 29, 2020. You will get your log in details for your private portal. Then each week, you will get a new lesson in your private portal. Also, we will have 8 live Q+ A calls on on Thursdays from 10-11 am CST starting March 5, 2020 and Saturdays from 4-5 pm CST starting March 14, 2020.
The Q + A calls are recorded and uploaded to a private password protected web page.
You can submit a question anonymously and I will answer it on the group Q+A calls or you can come on live and get direct coaching from me on the calls.
Register - Two Options:
Pay in Full
10 x Value Packed Training Modules
8 (eight) LIVE Q+A Calls on Saturdays or Thursdays
Lifetime Access To Course Material
BONUS: Powerful Listening Skills & Barriers- Ebook
BONUS: The Power of Choice-Ebook
BONUS: List of Fatima’s Recommended Books
BONUS: What to do if divorce is the only way to go and how to use the lessons in this program to support you through the divorce process.
PAY IN FULL BONUS:
**2 (two) private one on one sessions with Fatima**
$1,399
(save $397 + get two free private sessions with Fatima)
$449 Payment Plan
10 x Value Packed Training Modules
8 (eight) LIVE Q+A Calls on Saturdays or Thursdays
Lifetime Access To Course Material
BONUS: Powerful Listening Skills & Barriers- Ebook
BONUS: The Power of Choice-Ebook
BONUS: List of Fatima’s Recommended Books
BONUS: What to do if divorce is the only way to go and how to use the lessons in this program to support you through the divorce process.
Payment Plan Option
4 payments of $449
$449 per month for four (4) months
Frequently Asked Questions:
How long do we keep the lessons and Q&A calls?
The lessons are yours forever. The Q + A calls are deleted 60 days after the last call to protect sisters’ privacy. These may not be saved or downloaded as agreed upon in the Terms + Conditions of the group program when you join. This is so everyone in the program feels safe to share freely.
Can we ask questions anonymously?
Absolutely, there will be a form you can fill out before our Q + A calls and you can also create an alternative chat ID and ask questions under a different name.
Is this a program for both my husband and I or just me?
This program is only for sisters to give everyone the comfort they need to learn, ask and benefit. Also, I’ve found that these lessons are foundational for sisters to know before we do joint coaching with your husband because then when he expresses things, you are able to use the lessons in this program to create even more connection and intimacy and the things you desire in your marriage.
Why is this program only for the wife? For real change to happen don’t both spouses need to be there?
Yes and no. It would be great if both spouses could do private coaching with me. But my experience shows that most men are hesitant to go to marriage coaching or counseling. With the lessons in this program, our relationships are normally in a better place after these lessons are applied and your husband may be more likely to attend counseling or coaching. Also, I these lessons are foundational to any change happening. teach the lessons in this program in my private coaching anyway so this is a great way to get a head start on these lessons at a fraction of the price.
Do you offer a refund for this program?
Because of the nature of the program and that you get access to several materials upon signing up, I can not offer a refund. If you have any hesitations about joining the program, please contact me and let’s discuss if this program is a good fit for you.
If I can’t afford this, do you have another option?
Please join my newsletter. I send free emails there that I try to benefit sisters with.
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